Compliments
Compliments for your coworker
Specific to work output. Avoid appearance. Slack > email. 20 examples by who you're talking to.
Work compliments occupy a tight space. Too personal and it's HR-coded. Too professional and it reads like LinkedIn cosplay. The sweet spot: specific, work-related, observed-not-assumed. Compliment what you've actually seen them do.
20 compliments for coworkers below — organized by who you're talking to and the channel.
For someone on your team
Real talk: you carried that meeting today.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 4
That deck you put together is the bar now. Everyone's going to be measured against it.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 4
You're the only reason I look forward to standup.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 4
Your follow-through on [project] was elite. Wanted to put it on record.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 4
You make the team smarter. I borrow your framing constantly.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 4
For a coworker in a different team
Heard from [their manager] how well you handled [project]. They were impressed. I was too.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 4
Every time I work with you, the project goes better. That's a real pattern.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 5
You explain things in a way that makes me feel smarter, not dumber. Rare.
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Your taste in [their domain] is sharp. I've adopted three of your habits.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 5
For your manager (careful tier)
The way you handled [hard thing] this quarter was the model. I'm taking notes.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 4
Thanks for backing me on [specific decision]. I noticed. I won't forget.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 4
You make this team a place I actually want to be. That's a thing.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 5
For someone you manage
You've grown more this year than anyone else on the team. I notice. Wanted to say it out loud.
🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 4
Your work on [project] was exactly the level we needed. Don't undersell yourself.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 5
You handle pressure better than most people twice your tenure. Putting it on record.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 5
For a work birthday / send-off
Best coworker I've had. Hard to fake.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 Hype Level 5
The team won't be the same without you. Real loss.
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If I started a company tomorrow, you'd be the first person I'd call.
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You raise the bar wherever you go. Sorry to whoever's getting you next. Lucky them.
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Rules for work compliments
- Specific to work output. "Great deck" or "good meeting" lands harder than "you're great." Work compliments live and die by specificity to work.
- Avoid appearance compliments. Default to skipping these in professional settings unless it's a "nice tie" exchange. The territory is too HR-fraught to navigate well in writing.
- Send in Slack, not email. Slack compliments feel natural. Email compliments feel formal. Match the medium.
- CC the manager when appropriate. Compliments that travel up the chain become career capital. If you noticed someone did great work, tell their manager too. It costs you 60 seconds. It might cost them a promotion if you don't.
- Don't only when you need something. The compliment after you ask them for a favor reads transactional. The random Tuesday compliment is the real one.
The CC-the-manager move
One of the highest-leverage things you can do at work: send a Slack message complimenting a coworker AND tag/CC their manager. Their manager almost never gets unsolicited positive feedback about specific employees. It goes in their file. It comes up at review time. It can mean an actual raise. Takes 90 seconds, matters disproportionately.
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